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Category: Mindset & Growth

The Friendship Recession: Why Men Over 40 Have Fewer Friends, and What Actually Helps
One number keeps showing up in conversations about men and loneliness. In a 1990 Gallup poll, 55 percent of American men said…

The 40+ Life Reset Checklist
Somewhere in their forties, a lot of men notice they’ve been running the same routine for years without ever deciding it was…

Stop Waiting to Feel Ready
A lot of men carry a rule they never say out loud: I’ll do the big things once I feel ready. Change…

The Legacy Nobody Puts in a Will
My father died ten years ago. He didn’t leave me much in the way of instructions. What he left me instead was…

The Conversation I Almost Didn’t Have With My Dad
My dad and I never really talked about anything that mattered. Cars, sure. We had those conversations a thousand times, and could…

Sunday Night Dread Usually Isn’t About Monday
Plenty of men can feel Sunday coming by Saturday afternoon. It doesn’t announce itself at first. You’re a little short with the…

How to Reset Your Focus After 40: A No-Willpower Guide to Fixing Attention Span
You sit down to read a report, answer three emails instead. You start a project in the garage, end up watching a…

Why Saying No Got Easier the Older I Got
Say a friend invites you to his birthday dinner on a Friday night. For most of your life you wouldn’t have thought…

It’s Not Too Late: How to Start Something New in Midlife
This one’s a little unexpected, even to me: somewhere in the last year I fell into car detailing. I don’t own anything…

The Morning Routine for Men Over 40 That Actually Works
Build a morning routine for men over 40 that protects energy and focus: no phone, light and water, movement, and one clear…
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